This paper will focus on the notion of toxic masculinity that has a lot to do
with deforming the male identity figure. I am here really concerned with
probing within the need of conforming with the traditional masculinity ideology in the East and the West, and how it hinders males from discovering
what it means to be a male. Actually, the scope of research in this paper exceeds one culture to include both the Western and the Eastern cultures, which
have proved with evidence to share many attributes. I am also revealing how
this masculinity has been misinterpreted over the years to encompass weird
attitudes and behaviors as suppressing emotions or masking distress or showing violence as an indicator of power. How the idea of the necessity of being
“tough all the time” may affect their mental and psychological wellbeing and
what is less than that could stigmatize them for being “feminine” or “weak”.
In this paper, I will also try to reveal how great sector of women unintentionally feeds this ego of toxic masculinity to their sons since childhood days. By
connecting all these factors to the development of the characters in Victor
Surge’s novel “Men in Prison”, we are simply highlighting the psychological
dimension and consequences of suppressed men. It is regarded as an unfiltered view of humanity in the early 20th century. The depraving brutality that
Serge experienced behind bars is mirroring a society subduing men in various
levels. I hopefully seek to break down factors that trap men in a certain
framework out of which there is no escape.